THE THINGS WOMEN SHOULD NEVER CONSIDER AS REASONS TO GET MARRIED

I recently published a post on advantages of not getting married early, click here to read.  Before your marriage can be successful, you need to know the reasons why you are getting married. On my facebook timeline yesterday, there was a trending update. It was about

 "WHY DO YOU NEED TO GET MARRIED." 

 There were a lot of different comments but a particular lady said, she want to get married so that she will not be married. I was shocked when i saw her reason. I want to share with you what you should never consider as a reason to get married. 

 FOR KIDS: Getting married for the sake of kids is one of the worse reasons you should not consider. Most women consider this as a reason to get married but when you get married because of kids, he may be a good father but may not be a good husband. When you have a child out of wedlock, it doesn't mean you need to marry the father of your child. Remember, he may be a good father, bad husband.

 MONEY: Marrying for money is a very terrible idea. Marriage is deeper than money, marriage is about love, companionship and passion for your partner. Marrying for financial benefits will not last long.

 LOVE FOR WEDDING: I know you have seeing those engagement rings and your friends weeding photos on instagram, you now want to rust into marriage with one guy you just met. You may think it is good but have you thought beyond the wedding day and think about marriage? A wedding is just celebration that will happen in a day, marriage is lifetime.  GROWING OLD: I know we are growing old day by day but it should not be the reason you need to get married. You need to have enough time to think of your partner as the father of your children, part of you, partner for life and one that can stay with when you are old. If he doesn't suit you, please don't rush in so that you would not rush out.

 TO PLEASE YOUR FAMILY: I met a lady some days ago and she told me she is not happy about her marriage because she married to please her mother. Your parent will surely put pressure but you need to let them understand that, you are the one getting married not them. Don't make a decision to please someone, let it be at your own interest. 

 Be yourself! It is your world ladies!