For some years now, i have been observing some attitudes that my African guys exhibit. I wanted to call it the topic ''misconception'' but this facts are true.
1: Most of them cannot ask a girl out physically but love asking them out on social network
2: When a girl comes to their house, they believe it is because of sex
3: They hate using condom and they are scared of HIV
4: They love lying to ladies, even the devil wonder where they get their lie from apart from him.
5: They believe the motive of a relationship is sex.
6: Specialist in heartbreaking
7: Specialist in using and dumping
8: After sex, they hate a lady
9: Specialist in promising
10: They bearing this title, ''I am the one that disvirgin that girl''
Anyways, irrespective of all the facts i wrote, THEY STILL CANT DO WITHOUT US!
Monday, 22 February 2016
HOW TO ESCAPE THE FRIEND ZONE OF A GIRL
An adage says that "the patient dog eats the fattest bone" but my brother the fattest bone will come to the dog that act. This tips that I am about to share with you are tested and trusted by guys that I have helped to escape friend zone. If they don't work for you to get that girl if your dreams, my brother just simply move because there are plenty fishes in the river.
1: KEEP CONVERSATION SHORT
When you start to talk to girl, don't start to talk to her as if, when you hang up, your life will also hang up. Keep the phone calls short, if you don't, you are indirectly telling that your life is boring, you don't have anything to do with your life. She will just see as one of her fans. You and her may enjoy the conversation but you are doing more damage to the relationship. Girls need someone that can make their life interesting so it is better to play the role of a busy man that the role of a NO-LIFER. Make the phone calls as short as possible.
2: STOP SEEKING HER APPROVAL
As a man you must have confidence, do not take permission from her to so anything. You need to stop doing these things:
*TAKING PERMISSIONS TO KISS HER
*BEGGING HER FOR HER NUMBER
*BEGGING HER TO HUG YOU
It makes you boring as hell. Once a girl is comfortable with you discussion, you don't need to ask for her approval before you do anything. Even if you just met her for the first time just give her your phone to type her digits, make her seem like the one begging you.
3: MAKE HER FEEL JEALOUS
This is an old technique but guys, it is still working very well! It works like magic. If you are attracted to a girl in tour school, department or organization and she doesn't seem to notice all your green light, my brother it is time to use the jealousy technique.
Jealousy will catch her attention, make her see you having fun with other girls. If she is short, slim, has small hips make sure she see's you with a tall, big and girl with wide hips. You would be shocked how a complex you didn't expect comes in. When she see's you doing all these, am very sure that she will go home and check herself in the mirror.
4: ABBREVIATIONS
Ladies will always want guys to start an interesting conversation, while chatting, girls are known to be the first to initiate the conversation with some useless abbreviations like 'K'. Personally once you reply me with K, our conversation has ended. I will never start a conversation with you again. Some ladies will use some boring abbreviations like, sup, a.m, gud, aiit. I want you to be like a guy that will reply her with J when she says K. Some guys will reply girls as if they writing a short note to their families in abroad, it is chatting not writing a project.
5: DON'T APOLOGIZE
We are discussing about women here, people that don't know what they want. It bad to always form Mr nice guy when talking to a girl especially at the early stage. When she says you are wrong, you can admit but don't be that kind of guy that always says "I am sorry", it sounds boring and makes you look like a child.
I would have been tagged as a stingy person for not sharing these tips, the main reason I shared it, is that, I always pity my guys that are salary earners and buys anything a girl asks but are still in her friend zone.
1: KEEP CONVERSATION SHORT
When you start to talk to girl, don't start to talk to her as if, when you hang up, your life will also hang up. Keep the phone calls short, if you don't, you are indirectly telling that your life is boring, you don't have anything to do with your life. She will just see as one of her fans. You and her may enjoy the conversation but you are doing more damage to the relationship. Girls need someone that can make their life interesting so it is better to play the role of a busy man that the role of a NO-LIFER. Make the phone calls as short as possible.
2: STOP SEEKING HER APPROVAL
As a man you must have confidence, do not take permission from her to so anything. You need to stop doing these things:
*TAKING PERMISSIONS TO KISS HER
*BEGGING HER FOR HER NUMBER
*BEGGING HER TO HUG YOU
It makes you boring as hell. Once a girl is comfortable with you discussion, you don't need to ask for her approval before you do anything. Even if you just met her for the first time just give her your phone to type her digits, make her seem like the one begging you.
3: MAKE HER FEEL JEALOUS
This is an old technique but guys, it is still working very well! It works like magic. If you are attracted to a girl in tour school, department or organization and she doesn't seem to notice all your green light, my brother it is time to use the jealousy technique.
Jealousy will catch her attention, make her see you having fun with other girls. If she is short, slim, has small hips make sure she see's you with a tall, big and girl with wide hips. You would be shocked how a complex you didn't expect comes in. When she see's you doing all these, am very sure that she will go home and check herself in the mirror.
4: ABBREVIATIONS
Ladies will always want guys to start an interesting conversation, while chatting, girls are known to be the first to initiate the conversation with some useless abbreviations like 'K'. Personally once you reply me with K, our conversation has ended. I will never start a conversation with you again. Some ladies will use some boring abbreviations like, sup, a.m, gud, aiit. I want you to be like a guy that will reply her with J when she says K. Some guys will reply girls as if they writing a short note to their families in abroad, it is chatting not writing a project.
5: DON'T APOLOGIZE
We are discussing about women here, people that don't know what they want. It bad to always form Mr nice guy when talking to a girl especially at the early stage. When she says you are wrong, you can admit but don't be that kind of guy that always says "I am sorry", it sounds boring and makes you look like a child.
I would have been tagged as a stingy person for not sharing these tips, the main reason I shared it, is that, I always pity my guys that are salary earners and buys anything a girl asks but are still in her friend zone.
Sunday, 21 February 2016
LADIES DO NOT MARRY MEN THAT HAS THIS CHARACTERS
For some weeks now, I have been sharing tips for only guys; check here, here and here. I received mails from ladies that I don't help them in getting a guy they like or the kind of guys they should follow so I have come today to tell you the kind of Men you must not marry.
1: A MAN THAT DOES NOT HAVE FRIENDS
A man that is not friendly will always have issues with you, he will always be boring at when you and him are together and men like this will be jealous when they see you with your friends.
2: A MAN THAT BEATS HIS SISTER
A man that cab raise up his hand against his own relation won't think it twice to raise up his hand against you. Whether his sister is his junior or senior, as far as he does not respect her womanhood, he can't respect you also because he feels it is right to beat a woman.
3: A MAN THAT BELIEVES HE IS ALWAYS DOING YOU A FAVOR
There are so many men out there that has this trait especially if they came into your life when you were suffering from heartbreak. They will always believe they are the one that save your life or else you will still be single. He will always want you to do anything he wishes because he believes you owe him.
4: A MAN THAT DOES NOT RESPECT ADULTS
There some men that are rude naturally, they always talk to people anyhow, they don't care about the age or class of the person. As a man when you see an Adult, you must show some respect because it is written in bible, I don't know of Qur'an. When a lady marries this kind of men, he may show respect to your Father and Mother but he will never show respect to extended families because he feels he has no business with them.
5: A MAN THAT DOES NOT LOVE HIS MOTHER
When a Man loves his mother, most people will call him mummy boy but there is a huge difference between mummy boy and a man that truly loves his mother. A mummy's boy puts all his backbone on his mum, he will always do want she says, he will agree with her but a man that truly loves his mum won't do all this. A man should always love his mother and show respect for her even when they disagree. If a man does not respect his mother, who told you he will respect your mum?
6: A MAN THAT LOVES MONEY
These are the kind of men that lure their wives into prostitution when they are broke. They can do anything bro get money just to maintain their class in the society or among friends.
7: A MAN THAT CANNOT PREPARE FOOD
Ask yourself this questions, WHAT WILL HAPPEN TO YOUR CHILDREN. WHEN YOU TRAVEL? WHAT WILL HAPPEN TO YOUR CHILDREN WHEN YOU ARE SICK OR TIRED?
8: A MAN THAT DOESN'T FORGIVE PEOPLE
This kind of men are very wicked in mind, they find it very hard to forgive people that offends them. That's why we hear cases of men killing their wives because of some flimsy excuses. When you offend this kind of men just run away because they can kill you.
Ladies don't marry men with these characters above.
1: A MAN THAT DOES NOT HAVE FRIENDS
A man that is not friendly will always have issues with you, he will always be boring at when you and him are together and men like this will be jealous when they see you with your friends.
2: A MAN THAT BEATS HIS SISTER
A man that cab raise up his hand against his own relation won't think it twice to raise up his hand against you. Whether his sister is his junior or senior, as far as he does not respect her womanhood, he can't respect you also because he feels it is right to beat a woman.
3: A MAN THAT BELIEVES HE IS ALWAYS DOING YOU A FAVOR
There are so many men out there that has this trait especially if they came into your life when you were suffering from heartbreak. They will always believe they are the one that save your life or else you will still be single. He will always want you to do anything he wishes because he believes you owe him.
4: A MAN THAT DOES NOT RESPECT ADULTS
There some men that are rude naturally, they always talk to people anyhow, they don't care about the age or class of the person. As a man when you see an Adult, you must show some respect because it is written in bible, I don't know of Qur'an. When a lady marries this kind of men, he may show respect to your Father and Mother but he will never show respect to extended families because he feels he has no business with them.
5: A MAN THAT DOES NOT LOVE HIS MOTHER
When a Man loves his mother, most people will call him mummy boy but there is a huge difference between mummy boy and a man that truly loves his mother. A mummy's boy puts all his backbone on his mum, he will always do want she says, he will agree with her but a man that truly loves his mum won't do all this. A man should always love his mother and show respect for her even when they disagree. If a man does not respect his mother, who told you he will respect your mum?
6: A MAN THAT LOVES MONEY
These are the kind of men that lure their wives into prostitution when they are broke. They can do anything bro get money just to maintain their class in the society or among friends.
7: A MAN THAT CANNOT PREPARE FOOD
Ask yourself this questions, WHAT WILL HAPPEN TO YOUR CHILDREN. WHEN YOU TRAVEL? WHAT WILL HAPPEN TO YOUR CHILDREN WHEN YOU ARE SICK OR TIRED?
8: A MAN THAT DOESN'T FORGIVE PEOPLE
This kind of men are very wicked in mind, they find it very hard to forgive people that offends them. That's why we hear cases of men killing their wives because of some flimsy excuses. When you offend this kind of men just run away because they can kill you.
Ladies don't marry men with these characters above.
Friday, 19 February 2016
WHY DO PEOPLE WEAR SUN GLASSES AT NIGHT
Sunglasses are tinted glasses worn to protect the eyes from the sun. I have seen a lot of celebrities like D'banj, Wizkid, Davido, Lil Wayne, Kanye West and many other wearing sunglasses at night. I thought to myself and said "is there any advantage or advantages wearing sunglasses at night?" YES! There is an advantage, read my personal thought below.
I feel the main reason is to make people look like a cool gentleman. Most people think it is a cool idea but some people might think you are a clown putting on sunglasses at night. Come to think of it, when you wear sunglasses to night club, people always look at you with respect because it makes you look like a big dude. Although it will give you some level of attention wherever you are but the attention given to you maybe that of a cool gentleman or a clown.
The idea of sunglasses at night is to make you look cool, some people think it is a silly concept or you are using it to hide the effect of alcohol on your eyes. There is another bad effect of wearing sunglasses at night, that is, you will not be able to see things clearly. You might want to off your glasses to gaze at young beautiful girl also when driving at night, it is very risky to put on sunglass.
My final thought is that, do not put on sunglasses at night, you will be ridiculed because nobody recognize you. Leave sunglasses for celebrities, celebrities are always recognize anywhere they are, so don't make people see you as a celebrity wannabe and someone that just want to feel among. BE YOURSELF!
I feel the main reason is to make people look like a cool gentleman. Most people think it is a cool idea but some people might think you are a clown putting on sunglasses at night. Come to think of it, when you wear sunglasses to night club, people always look at you with respect because it makes you look like a big dude. Although it will give you some level of attention wherever you are but the attention given to you maybe that of a cool gentleman or a clown.
The idea of sunglasses at night is to make you look cool, some people think it is a silly concept or you are using it to hide the effect of alcohol on your eyes. There is another bad effect of wearing sunglasses at night, that is, you will not be able to see things clearly. You might want to off your glasses to gaze at young beautiful girl also when driving at night, it is very risky to put on sunglass.
My final thought is that, do not put on sunglasses at night, you will be ridiculed because nobody recognize you. Leave sunglasses for celebrities, celebrities are always recognize anywhere they are, so don't make people see you as a celebrity wannabe and someone that just want to feel among. BE YOURSELF!
HOW TO WIN THE HEART OF A STUBBORN GIRL
Most guys still experience opposite reactions from girls, and this will make them lose interest in a girl that they truly like. We all know that girls are suppose to be mild and gentle but some girls just have a kind of negative and stubborn attitude and still play 'hard to get', especially when they see a guy.
Sometimes I feel maybe it is because of their past experience with guys or their stubbornness is inherited. So how can you win the heart of a girl that is stubborn?
Number one, don't let her know that you are after her body or sex. Do not let her have that you want because she has big butt and boobs, she will look at you as a pervert and this will make you sad. I know most guys are after what they see but first impression matters a lot, that's why I wrote how to approach a girl here.
Two, take care of her, buy her gifts, give her money and other stuffs. I know you are scared about thus part but guys, don't be stingy, try to spend for a girl. Am not saying anything she asks for you must give her but we all know that ladies love money, they live someone that will take care if them. One way to get to a woman heart is to buy her gifts, that's why they love valentine season. The best thing to buy a girl is fragrance, especially feminine fragrance or snacks, it make her drool and she will blush. Once you make a girl blush, she will realize that you are a nice and lovely guy.
Three, don't behave like a kid. Yeah, you read that, most guys behave like kids when they see a beautiful girl they like but guys if you want to win a stubborn girl heart, act matured. Stop behaving like a mummy's boy, you need to be a man with a nice and responsible character because girls lice responsible guys.
Four, smell and dress nice. You really need to look decent Bro, the girl is already stubborn so she needs someone that has a gentleman character. An adage says ' the way you dress is the way they will address you'. Don't dress like a gangster and approach a girl, it is wrong because she will see you as a kidnapper or a bad guy. Use nice perfumes.
Five, be confident. Like I said earlier, do not behave like a mummy not when yo are with a girl, you need to be confident. Stubborn girls hate people that are nervous, all girls hate people that are nervous because they won't be able to introduce to their friends.
So guys these are the ways I feel you can win the heart of a stubborn girl.
Sometimes I feel maybe it is because of their past experience with guys or their stubbornness is inherited. So how can you win the heart of a girl that is stubborn?
Number one, don't let her know that you are after her body or sex. Do not let her have that you want because she has big butt and boobs, she will look at you as a pervert and this will make you sad. I know most guys are after what they see but first impression matters a lot, that's why I wrote how to approach a girl here.
Two, take care of her, buy her gifts, give her money and other stuffs. I know you are scared about thus part but guys, don't be stingy, try to spend for a girl. Am not saying anything she asks for you must give her but we all know that ladies love money, they live someone that will take care if them. One way to get to a woman heart is to buy her gifts, that's why they love valentine season. The best thing to buy a girl is fragrance, especially feminine fragrance or snacks, it make her drool and she will blush. Once you make a girl blush, she will realize that you are a nice and lovely guy.
Three, don't behave like a kid. Yeah, you read that, most guys behave like kids when they see a beautiful girl they like but guys if you want to win a stubborn girl heart, act matured. Stop behaving like a mummy's boy, you need to be a man with a nice and responsible character because girls lice responsible guys.
Four, smell and dress nice. You really need to look decent Bro, the girl is already stubborn so she needs someone that has a gentleman character. An adage says ' the way you dress is the way they will address you'. Don't dress like a gangster and approach a girl, it is wrong because she will see you as a kidnapper or a bad guy. Use nice perfumes.
Five, be confident. Like I said earlier, do not behave like a mummy not when yo are with a girl, you need to be confident. Stubborn girls hate people that are nervous, all girls hate people that are nervous because they won't be able to introduce to their friends.
So guys these are the ways I feel you can win the heart of a stubborn girl.
Thursday, 18 February 2016
KIM KARDASHIAN FASHION STYLE IS STUNNING
Kim style and choice of cloth has always revolves aw a true and fashion icon and role model. She always look simple but glamorous in whatever clothes she pick to wear. She is always looking fabulous anytime there is a latest seasonal fashion trends.
Kim k know the fashion item she needs to put during any fashion season. She is presently a mother of two and married to popular American musician, Kanye West.
She has jaw-dropping endorsements with fashion company, fragrance and several clothing lines. Prior to the development of her fashion and modeling career, Kim also gained a whooping sum of $5millon from the court in subject of her sex tape with Ray J.
HOW TO COLLECT A GIRL PHONE NUMBER AFTER APPROACHING HER
A lot of guys do not know the right way way to collect a girl phone number after approaching and talking to her, some will even beg the girl for number and she will refuse to give them. I am not saying you should be rude or be proud but you just have to be a BOSS.
A BOSS can't beg his workers. If you have been following me, I told you how to approach a girl for the first time here and how to talk to her for the first time here, I also promised to tell you how I collected a girl number I met for the first time.
Let us go straight to today lesson, I met the girl at my exam center, our conversation thus;
Me: Babe, borrow me your pen
Girl: Alright, you can have it
Me: Thank you, you are nice, unlike some other girls that will not answer me
Girl: (laughs) I am not like that
Me: Since you are a nice person, I know you will surely help me
Girl: What kind of help?
Me: My phone just spoilt and I need you to repair it
Girl: (surprised) Am not a phone repairer
Me: Yeah! I know
Girl: Why were you now asking me?
Me: Because only your phone number can repair it (smiles)
Girl: ( laughs out loud) You are a bad boy! Since am a nice person I will give you...........
You don't need to use the same line, you can come up with your idea by not allowing her to have the feelings that you are trying to woo her.
Another instance:
You: I love this your hairstyle so much
Girl: Thank you
You: It really fits you, what is it called
Girl: It is just a normal weave
You: Wow! What of that one that one that touches the forehead
Girl: Which one
You: Nicki Minaj love doing it
Girl: Oh! It is fringes
You: Yes! Fringes will look good on you
Girl: ( laughs) Who told you that? I don't even like it
You: That's why you didn't do it
Girl: (laughs)
You: You are an interesting and playful person, let me collect your number so that I can look for your trouble and my kid-sister will like you since you know about hair
Girl: I will love to be friend will you kid-sister ( Brings out phone and call number)
When you tell her that you are collecting her number to look for her trouble and your sister will like to talk to her, it will make her drop her guard and be free, because, you did not tell her that you like her that's you need her number.
Remember, never beg a girl for her phone number and make sure you don't keep your face like a mess while talking to her, just try to be free and funny around her. NOTE: Any girl that gives you her number for only telling her you like her has not suffered a heartbreak. Have a nice day!
You can drop questions and contributions in the comment box below.
A BOSS can't beg his workers. If you have been following me, I told you how to approach a girl for the first time here and how to talk to her for the first time here, I also promised to tell you how I collected a girl number I met for the first time.
Let us go straight to today lesson, I met the girl at my exam center, our conversation thus;
Me: Babe, borrow me your pen
Girl: Alright, you can have it
Me: Thank you, you are nice, unlike some other girls that will not answer me
Girl: (laughs) I am not like that
Me: Since you are a nice person, I know you will surely help me
Girl: What kind of help?
Me: My phone just spoilt and I need you to repair it
Girl: (surprised) Am not a phone repairer
Me: Yeah! I know
Girl: Why were you now asking me?
Me: Because only your phone number can repair it (smiles)
Girl: ( laughs out loud) You are a bad boy! Since am a nice person I will give you...........
You don't need to use the same line, you can come up with your idea by not allowing her to have the feelings that you are trying to woo her.
Another instance:
You: I love this your hairstyle so much
Girl: Thank you
You: It really fits you, what is it called
Girl: It is just a normal weave
You: Wow! What of that one that one that touches the forehead
Girl: Which one
You: Nicki Minaj love doing it
Girl: Oh! It is fringes
You: Yes! Fringes will look good on you
Girl: ( laughs) Who told you that? I don't even like it
You: That's why you didn't do it
Girl: (laughs)
You: You are an interesting and playful person, let me collect your number so that I can look for your trouble and my kid-sister will like you since you know about hair
Girl: I will love to be friend will you kid-sister ( Brings out phone and call number)
When you tell her that you are collecting her number to look for her trouble and your sister will like to talk to her, it will make her drop her guard and be free, because, you did not tell her that you like her that's you need her number.
Remember, never beg a girl for her phone number and make sure you don't keep your face like a mess while talking to her, just try to be free and funny around her. NOTE: Any girl that gives you her number for only telling her you like her has not suffered a heartbreak. Have a nice day!
You can drop questions and contributions in the comment box below.
Wednesday, 17 February 2016
WHAT YOU NEED TO SAY AFTER APPROACHING A GIRL
In my previous update, I wrote about how to approach a girl for the first time and I promise that I will update on ''WHAT YOU NEED TO SAY AFTER APPROACHING A GIRL''. If you missed the the first one you cannot understand this part, so simply click here to read.
Most guys are completely lost immediately they approach a beautiful lady, they are always confuse on what they really need to say to the girl, to make her like them. No matter how beautiful a girl is, telling her she is the most beautiful person you have ever seen will not boost her ego because her former boyfriend told her.
So what do you really need to say to her? I came up with a formular which I named INDIRECT WAY OF TALKING! This is the most simple way of talking to a girl for the first time, talk to her indirectly. Do not make her know that you like her, talk to her as if she is already your friend.
Let me share some words you must not say when talking to a girl for the first time:
* YOU ARE BEAUTIFUL
* I WANT TO BE YOUR FRIEND
* CAN I HAVE YOU NUMBER
* WHAT IS YOUR NAME
* HOW ARE YOU AND HOW WAS YOUR DAY....
Most guys fall into this category of asking girls those broing questions that they know the answer to. Never take permission because she will see you as another new and boring fan. Indirect way of talking is the best way to talk to a girl, do the opposite of what other guys do to girls.
Let me share with you how I approach ladies:
ME: I always want to talk to you but am scared of your hand
GIRL: (looks at hand) What happen to my hand?
ME: Your muscles! I am just scared you wont give a jab as I am talking to you
GIRL: (laughs) No o, am not like that, I am very gentle and easy going
ME: Wow! I am now relieve
GIRL: (laughs) Better
Me: Hmmm, i love the way your lower lips curve when you talk to me
Girl: (smiles) Stop making me blush.................(the rest is now a history,lol).
You can see me and the girl had a flowing conversation within minutes. You just have to be free and talk to her like a female buddy. Don't behave like a puppy that is scared to look at his master when you are talking to a girl, dont be scared of what to say.
I will show how to collect a girl phone number and how i collected her phone number in my next update. Stay tuned!
Most guys are completely lost immediately they approach a beautiful lady, they are always confuse on what they really need to say to the girl, to make her like them. No matter how beautiful a girl is, telling her she is the most beautiful person you have ever seen will not boost her ego because her former boyfriend told her.
So what do you really need to say to her? I came up with a formular which I named INDIRECT WAY OF TALKING! This is the most simple way of talking to a girl for the first time, talk to her indirectly. Do not make her know that you like her, talk to her as if she is already your friend.
Let me share some words you must not say when talking to a girl for the first time:
* YOU ARE BEAUTIFUL
* I WANT TO BE YOUR FRIEND
* CAN I HAVE YOU NUMBER
* WHAT IS YOUR NAME
* HOW ARE YOU AND HOW WAS YOUR DAY....
Most guys fall into this category of asking girls those broing questions that they know the answer to. Never take permission because she will see you as another new and boring fan. Indirect way of talking is the best way to talk to a girl, do the opposite of what other guys do to girls.
Let me share with you how I approach ladies:
ME: I always want to talk to you but am scared of your hand
GIRL: (looks at hand) What happen to my hand?
ME: Your muscles! I am just scared you wont give a jab as I am talking to you
GIRL: (laughs) No o, am not like that, I am very gentle and easy going
ME: Wow! I am now relieve
GIRL: (laughs) Better
Me: Hmmm, i love the way your lower lips curve when you talk to me
Girl: (smiles) Stop making me blush.................(the rest is now a history,lol).
You can see me and the girl had a flowing conversation within minutes. You just have to be free and talk to her like a female buddy. Don't behave like a puppy that is scared to look at his master when you are talking to a girl, dont be scared of what to say.
I will show how to collect a girl phone number and how i collected her phone number in my next update. Stay tuned!
HOW TO APPROACH A GIRL FOR THE FIRST TIME
It has been a long time I updated on this blog due to some personal reasons but I am fully back to serve my lovely blog readers the very best.
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Today, I want to share with you how to approach a girl for the first time. We all know that girls are move with what they hear and guys are move with what they see, that is, girls will only fall for a guy that can talk them in a special way.
What is that special way? BE DIFFERENT! I know you are wondering how that can work but let us do some arithmetic, a beautiful girl (I use beautiful because all guys want a beautiful girl, shout out to the ugly ones) gets least of 5 toasters in a week, that is, 10 different guys within two weeks and these guys will always say the same thing, like, ''You are beautiful'', ''My name is..... and please make me your friend''.
What I am trying to say is that, you need to stand out among the crowd, be different when you approach a girl, be free, don't be scared, don't take permissions, talk to her like a long-term friend. No girl will give her number to a guy that is boring, No girl will give her number for saying she is beautiful because another guy told her same thing yesterday, last week, last month and even her ex told her. Let me drop my pen here, because i don't want it to be too long but remember approach her as if she is a friend without her having any feeling that you are trying to woo her.
The next tip i will update is 'WHAT TO SAY WHEN YOU MEET A GIRL FOR THE FIRST TIME.' Have a nice day.
Today, I want to share with you how to approach a girl for the first time. We all know that girls are move with what they hear and guys are move with what they see, that is, girls will only fall for a guy that can talk them in a special way.
What is that special way? BE DIFFERENT! I know you are wondering how that can work but let us do some arithmetic, a beautiful girl (I use beautiful because all guys want a beautiful girl, shout out to the ugly ones) gets least of 5 toasters in a week, that is, 10 different guys within two weeks and these guys will always say the same thing, like, ''You are beautiful'', ''My name is..... and please make me your friend''.
What I am trying to say is that, you need to stand out among the crowd, be different when you approach a girl, be free, don't be scared, don't take permissions, talk to her like a long-term friend. No girl will give her number to a guy that is boring, No girl will give her number for saying she is beautiful because another guy told her same thing yesterday, last week, last month and even her ex told her. Let me drop my pen here, because i don't want it to be too long but remember approach her as if she is a friend without her having any feeling that you are trying to woo her.
The next tip i will update is 'WHAT TO SAY WHEN YOU MEET A GIRL FOR THE FIRST TIME.' Have a nice day.
Thursday, 9 July 2015
HOW TO KNOW YOUR MAN IS CHEATING ON YOU
Here's how to know your man is cheating on you:
1. His keeps his privacy: A man that cheat does not want you to see his phone and computer.
2. He does not crave for attention again: A man that cheat won't notice you because he has gotten some new attention outside. You will look used, to him.
3. He stops telling you what happen in his office: A man that cheat will want to keep everything private so he will stop talking. It means he has a secret he does not want to reveal.
4. He makes excuses: They always try to look for an excuse. If he used to take the family on a date but now he has stop due to some weak excuses, my dear sister, he is a cheat.
5. He start bringing un-requested gifts: Gifts that you didn't ask for, he will start to bring them home so that you won't notice he is cheating. These gifts are called guilt-gifts.
6. His character change: Maybe he always come back from work early but now has started coming late without giving you a genuine reason for his late-coming. Or, he starts to dress well, receive and make calls in your absence, spends more time alone and online.
7. He is uninterested about sex: He will never be interested about sex since he is getting it somwhere else.
If your man has cheated before, he will surely cheat again, so the best thing for you to do is to let him have an open mind. Allow him to see as his partner and advisor, allow him to tell when he is attracted to some else, you can do these with teasing. When he tells you he attracted to some one else, do not be upset just laugh over it. Interaction will keep your relationship alive than secrets.
1. His keeps his privacy: A man that cheat does not want you to see his phone and computer.
2. He does not crave for attention again: A man that cheat won't notice you because he has gotten some new attention outside. You will look used, to him.
3. He stops telling you what happen in his office: A man that cheat will want to keep everything private so he will stop talking. It means he has a secret he does not want to reveal.
4. He makes excuses: They always try to look for an excuse. If he used to take the family on a date but now he has stop due to some weak excuses, my dear sister, he is a cheat.
5. He start bringing un-requested gifts: Gifts that you didn't ask for, he will start to bring them home so that you won't notice he is cheating. These gifts are called guilt-gifts.
6. His character change: Maybe he always come back from work early but now has started coming late without giving you a genuine reason for his late-coming. Or, he starts to dress well, receive and make calls in your absence, spends more time alone and online.
7. He is uninterested about sex: He will never be interested about sex since he is getting it somwhere else.
If your man has cheated before, he will surely cheat again, so the best thing for you to do is to let him have an open mind. Allow him to see as his partner and advisor, allow him to tell when he is attracted to some else, you can do these with teasing. When he tells you he attracted to some one else, do not be upset just laugh over it. Interaction will keep your relationship alive than secrets.
MISCONCEPTIONS WOMEN HAVE ABOUT ALL MEN
There are some myths or let me say lies that most women believe about men. People think they are true but everything is a big lie! Let me quickly share some with you:
1: ALL MEN ARE SAME: This one is very common. Women love generalising that all men are the same thing especially when one has done something bad for her. The truth is that men are different both physically and character wise. Some men are short, some are tall, some are average height just like women.
2: ALL MEN CHEAT: Since men are not the same, stop believing that all men cheat. I am friends with most women that believes men cheat, i have talked to them but they still keep on generalizing that men cheat. I will continue to say that not all men cheat, this sounds so disrespectful to the good men out there. Men can be monogamous.
3: ALL MEN FUSTRATE THEIR SUCCESSFUL AND RICH WIVES: Men don't intimidate women! Men are cool and caring. Any man that intimidates his rich wife does not love you, he does not share any feelings so both of you are not compatible. Any man that intimidates his rich wife is also lazy, immature and not confident.
4. ALL OLD MEN ARE MATURE: If a man is old does not mean that he is mature. You wil see some men that 50 and 4m but still behave like small children. Maturity is not about age, it is about experience.
5: ALL MEN THINK ABOUT SEX 2 4 7 WHEN THEY APPROACH WOMEN: This is not true at all! A man may find a girl interesting and want to be her friend. Not everybody even want sex in a relationship, men crave about companionship. Even if he thinks about sex, i feel it depends on the environment. Guys, do you think about sex all the time?
1: ALL MEN ARE SAME: This one is very common. Women love generalising that all men are the same thing especially when one has done something bad for her. The truth is that men are different both physically and character wise. Some men are short, some are tall, some are average height just like women.
2: ALL MEN CHEAT: Since men are not the same, stop believing that all men cheat. I am friends with most women that believes men cheat, i have talked to them but they still keep on generalizing that men cheat. I will continue to say that not all men cheat, this sounds so disrespectful to the good men out there. Men can be monogamous.
3: ALL MEN FUSTRATE THEIR SUCCESSFUL AND RICH WIVES: Men don't intimidate women! Men are cool and caring. Any man that intimidates his rich wife does not love you, he does not share any feelings so both of you are not compatible. Any man that intimidates his rich wife is also lazy, immature and not confident.
4. ALL OLD MEN ARE MATURE: If a man is old does not mean that he is mature. You wil see some men that 50 and 4m but still behave like small children. Maturity is not about age, it is about experience.
5: ALL MEN THINK ABOUT SEX 2 4 7 WHEN THEY APPROACH WOMEN: This is not true at all! A man may find a girl interesting and want to be her friend. Not everybody even want sex in a relationship, men crave about companionship. Even if he thinks about sex, i feel it depends on the environment. Guys, do you think about sex all the time?
THE BEST PRESCRIPTION FOR A BROKEN HEART
Being heart broken is a pain. No one can explain how it feels like until they experience it. I was once heartbroken and it took me 8months to get over it. It is not an easy process when you are being heartbroken but if you have the best medicine, you will get over it easily.
I have some prescriptions that will help you recover your happiness and get over depression. Firstly, accept the fact that your ex has gone and can never come back. If you are still hoping that your ex partner will come back to you then you will always be depressed. You simply need to accept it as a fate. I know it not easy to get over someone you share your love, romance and feelings with but you just have to do it by getting yourself occupied with something. Hangout with your family and friends, go our for dinner and lunch. You will spend less time being alone and more being around happy people.
Secondly, do not put the blame on yourself. You need to fight the thought on your mind that is telling you that you are the cause of the break up. A relationship is meant for two compatible people, you and your ex were not compatible that is why you got heartbroken.
Furthermore, forgive your ex. You need to learn to forgive people, your ex was not at fault neither you were at fault. Like i said earlier, you people were not compatible. When you have hatred for your ex, your are adding more stress and building tension for yourself.
In addition, don't be scared of being alone. You need to teach yourself on how you can be more romantic and build a long lasting relationship. Go out and enjoy with friends, you can even go on a date with any of your female friends. You need to discover that life is very beautiful and there are a lot of things for you to enjoy.
Lastly, you need to know that love is a beautiful thing. Leave you past behind and focus on your future. Do not use your ex to generalize that everybody are the and you are the only one different. There are people that will show you love when you get outside, you just need to discover yourself and feel happy. After everything, there will always be one person that will show you love, appreciate you and care for you.
NOTE: Before you consider to be in another relationship, you need to think back and try to figure out what really caused the break up, think about beautiful places you and your ex went together. Make you sure you are not entering a new relationship on a rebound, it will only give unpleasant emotions and feelings. Take your time before you jump into another relatioship but if you actually learned from the previous relationship like i said, you will have no problem in the new one.
Secondly, do not put the blame on yourself. You need to fight the thought on your mind that is telling you that you are the cause of the break up. A relationship is meant for two compatible people, you and your ex were not compatible that is why you got heartbroken.
Furthermore, forgive your ex. You need to learn to forgive people, your ex was not at fault neither you were at fault. Like i said earlier, you people were not compatible. When you have hatred for your ex, your are adding more stress and building tension for yourself.
In addition, don't be scared of being alone. You need to teach yourself on how you can be more romantic and build a long lasting relationship. Go out and enjoy with friends, you can even go on a date with any of your female friends. You need to discover that life is very beautiful and there are a lot of things for you to enjoy.
Lastly, you need to know that love is a beautiful thing. Leave you past behind and focus on your future. Do not use your ex to generalize that everybody are the and you are the only one different. There are people that will show you love when you get outside, you just need to discover yourself and feel happy. After everything, there will always be one person that will show you love, appreciate you and care for you.
NOTE: Before you consider to be in another relationship, you need to think back and try to figure out what really caused the break up, think about beautiful places you and your ex went together. Make you sure you are not entering a new relationship on a rebound, it will only give unpleasant emotions and feelings. Take your time before you jump into another relatioship but if you actually learned from the previous relationship like i said, you will have no problem in the new one.
LADIES LEARN EASY WAYS TO APPRECIATE YOUR MAN
Men do not want you to talk, they want actions. So telling him how much you appreciate him won't have any impact but if you show it to him, it will be more effective.
Below are examples of the ways you can show your partner you appreciate him:
* Prepare his favorite dinner: The road to a man's heart is his stomach. So if you can win his stomach, you can win his heart.
* Give him a back and foot massage: At the end of the day work, when he is stressed out, give him a very warm massage. It will help in relieving his tension and make him more connected to you.
* Always welcome him home with a smile and a cozy hug: Smiling is going to boost his attention to you. It will help him boost his mood and know that you are around him. A very nice hug will go deep into heart and make him be happy and more romantic.
* Take him as your personal advisor: Always seek for advice from him. Any issue that bothering your mind and heart , go to him and tell him to advice you. It will make him feel more connected to you. All i want is to see couples fulfilling their relationships. That is why you must appreciate your partner in order to strengthen your connection, romance and love.
* Prepare his favorite dinner: The road to a man's heart is his stomach. So if you can win his stomach, you can win his heart.
* Give him a back and foot massage: At the end of the day work, when he is stressed out, give him a very warm massage. It will help in relieving his tension and make him more connected to you.
* Always welcome him home with a smile and a cozy hug: Smiling is going to boost his attention to you. It will help him boost his mood and know that you are around him. A very nice hug will go deep into heart and make him be happy and more romantic.
* Take him as your personal advisor: Always seek for advice from him. Any issue that bothering your mind and heart , go to him and tell him to advice you. It will make him feel more connected to you. All i want is to see couples fulfilling their relationships. That is why you must appreciate your partner in order to strengthen your connection, romance and love.
Tuesday, 7 July 2015
MEN LEARN EASY WAYS TO APPRECIATE YOUR PARTNER
In so many relationships these days, there are a lot of demand. A lot of people find it very difficult to show appreciation to their partner. In my subsequent article loading, i will publish a post about 'WHY COUPLES CHEAT.' Feeling unappreciated is a top reason why people cheat in a relationship.
You may not be the president, governor or extremely rich but women are very gentle and tender so they are always comfortable when their partner expresses a lot of appreciation that speaks of their emotions and their nuturing nature.
These are some ways to show your woman that is she is highly appreciated:
* Always tell her how much she means to you: Be specific and be true about it. If she is a caring tell her you love the way she treats the family. Be specific about your reasons.
* Relieve her stress in a non-sexual way: Touching is one of the best ways to relieve stress. So you have to create the mood and feelings for your woman.
* Prepare dinner: Woman are always happy when their husband assist them in the chores especially the cooking aspect. Prepare the dinner, set the dining and label the food 'specially for you,' sounds romantic. If you don't know how to cook, take her
out for a date.
*Always listen to her: You need to be a good listener, she want some someone that she will tell what is bothering her mind and heart. She may not want you to solve the problem but she wants you to listen so that she won't feel hurt and ignored.
Talking and sharing of their details always give them enocuragement and make them feel loved. Women place higher value on men that appreciate rather than those that gives them things.
Sunday, 5 July 2015
LADIES LEARN TIPS ON HOW TO ASK YOUR MALE CRUSH OUT
Ladies it is time for you to be confident and walk up to guy. Gone are the days when you need to wait for your crush to come and ask you out, you need to be creative also. Asking your crush out as a female is not a bad idea, don't be deceved by anybody that it is the duty of man to ask you out. If you have that mind, you will stay long in your parent house. Ladies, I know you have been looking for the ways you will ask your crush out, let me share with you some wonderful ways to:
Send A note: When you see him passing, stylishly walk pass and drop the note on the floor knowingly, he will call you back to tell you your paper dropped. Once he calls you back, simply pick it and give it to him while smiling.
The strategy above will only work for teenagers.
For Adult, when he leaves his work area, simply pass him and drop the note on his desk. When he his coming back to his work/desk area, make sure you give him a flirty look or smile. Its simple and effective.
Send An E-mail: I know most of you may be shy about getting the flirty look on your face, so if you do not want him to feel embarrassed, simply send him an e-mail asking him out. Do not say you want to go on a date with him, just call it a lunch and drop your number. Be Unique:
Be Unique When You Want To Give Him Your Number;I said in the point above that you should drop your number in e-mail but what about writing your number on a ball and give it to him? It will be very memorable. Another unique tip is to drop your number on his book when he is reading.
Be Unique When You Ask Him Out For Lunch; Plan something like a treasure hunt. All you need to do is to sketch a rough map and tell him to look for the treasure by the time you want him to come. Ideally, the hidden treasure is you on your dinning or restaurant. Do this like a dramatic irony drama.
If all the tips above failed, just summon courage, compose yourself, walk up to him and ask him! This will make him take you serious because he will see you as a different person. Most girls play hard to get so it is at the back of every guy mind that a girl can never walk up to him and him ask him out except he is Obama's son. So when you do this, he will love that you had the courage to come out straight to him.
Ladies! These are just the funny but brave ways you can use to your crush out. Simply be brave and creative. Let me know when you try any of these, I will love to hear from you! (Click here on How to make you boyfriend love you more ).
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