THE HONEST REASON WHY LADIES DATE MARRIED MEN

 I have been wondering why many ladies date married men. To my own point of view when i tried to analyze the issue, i think when you are old enough to marry, but you don’t find the right man ready to put you in his house as his wife, you won't want to remain like a prisoner, so you don’t mind being a second wife and you will feel as long as you are being respected like a wife by the man, you are comfortable with it.
 On other hand, i feel being a second wife is a bad idea. Women don't like themselves, they will surely beef each other especially when it comes to the matter of children. If the senior wife gives birth to 6 children, the junior wife will also want to have 6 or 7 children. I called one of my aunty friend and i asked her the question, she told me that she is currently dating one married man and they have been together for 3 years now. She said the man is ready to marry her but she is not ready to be a second wife. I asked her why is she dating him, “I am just with him till the day i will find the right person to marry me and i will know how best to handle my husband,” she said.
 Another of my aunty friend, named Aunty Tosan said she dates a married man apart from 3 regular boyfriends. The married man pays money for her maintenance, i asked which one is maintenance, she said money for her make up, call card, creams, hair and bills. So she keeps the three boyfriends pending when any of them would decide on marriage but for the married man, she said they both know they don’t have a future together, but he pays her bills and assists her.
 If you have had an experience or have reasons why ladies date married men, you can share with us.