There is a saying that out of sight is out of mind and old memories never fades away. When you had an intimate moments with love ones, you will never seem to forget so easy. This rose to why i asked some people if they could allow their ex or ex of their spouse visit them in their matrimonial home.
I got a lot of reaction from people, A lady said 'seeing each other could arouse our feelings', she further stated, 'old memories do not fade away, after the ex leaves,something could still happen that would make them be close again,i would not be happy if my husband allows his ex visit our home ,they are gone for good; they should face their businesses'. A lot of people had negative reaction to this but to them it sounds positive.
I got shocked when a lady said, 'it is very dangerous,there is a bible verse that says one should flee from every evil'.
Another said, ' i cannot allow my husband's ex visit my matrimonial home, that is like deliberately exposing my home to the doors of the evil one,i will not allow anyone to intrude into our private lives again'.
After series of reaction and comments from the ladies, i moved on to ask a guy and he said, ' I can, depending on the circumstances surrounding the visit, if the break up between the duo were for good reason and the man is not of a questionable character, i would allow him to visit us but not frequently'. When i got this reply,i felt 'wow' and i just praise the guy for giving me a nice reply.
I feel there is nothing bad in thing, or what are your suggestions?
I got a lot of reaction from people, A lady said 'seeing each other could arouse our feelings', she further stated, 'old memories do not fade away, after the ex leaves,something could still happen that would make them be close again,i would not be happy if my husband allows his ex visit our home ,they are gone for good; they should face their businesses'. A lot of people had negative reaction to this but to them it sounds positive.
I got shocked when a lady said, 'it is very dangerous,there is a bible verse that says one should flee from every evil'.
Another said, ' i cannot allow my husband's ex visit my matrimonial home, that is like deliberately exposing my home to the doors of the evil one,i will not allow anyone to intrude into our private lives again'.
After series of reaction and comments from the ladies, i moved on to ask a guy and he said, ' I can, depending on the circumstances surrounding the visit, if the break up between the duo were for good reason and the man is not of a questionable character, i would allow him to visit us but not frequently'. When i got this reply,i felt 'wow' and i just praise the guy for giving me a nice reply.
I feel there is nothing bad in thing, or what are your suggestions?
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